When it comes to weddings, style is more than just pretty pictures — it’s the thread that ties everything together. From your invitations to your table décor, your wedding aesthetic helps create a consistent atmosphere, a visual story that feels uniquely you.

But with so many gorgeous inspirations floating around (hello, Pinterest rabbit hole!), how do you even begin to choose the right style for your day?

Let’s break down some of the most popular wedding aesthetics — plus some guidance to help you decide which one best suits your personality, venue, and vision.

✨ Why Your Wedding Style Matters

Think of your style as the glue between all your elements: your dress, your flowers, your signage, your venue, and even your playlist. Choosing a clear aesthetic helps:

• Make cohesive design decisions

• Streamline your planning process

• Communicate your vision with suppliers

• Create a beautiful, immersive experience for your guests

Now let’s explore some well-loved wedding styles to inspire your direction.

🌾 Rustic

Think: Barns, natural textures, fairy lights, and countryside charm.
Perfect for: Outdoor or rural venues, DIY lovers, relaxed celebrations.

Rustic weddings embrace the beauty of nature with a laid-back, homespun feel. Think wood accents, hessian runners, wildflowers, and romantic lighting. This style often includes handcrafted details and soft, earthy colour palettes.

💡 Rustic Tip: Don’t over-style. A rustic aesthetic thrives on natural beauty — too much polish can take away its charm.

🌿 Boho

Think: Free-spirited, whimsical, and a touch of eclectic romance.
Perfect for: Tipis, festival vibes, creative couples, alternative venues.

Boho weddings are effortlessly cool. Picture dried grasses, textured linens, oversized florals, statement rugs, macramé, and earthy tones. It’s all about layering different materials and creating a relaxed, dreamy atmosphere.

💡 Boho Tip: Mix textures – leather, lace, linen, and wood work beautifully together. Think less symmetry, more soul.

✨ Modern

Think: Sleek lines, minimalism, and a touch of urban luxe.
Perfect for: Contemporary venues, city weddings, lovers of clean design.

Modern weddings focus on simplicity, sophistication, and a neutral or monochrome palette. Think acrylic signage, chic stationery, and statement lighting. This style often blends metallics, glass, and bold floral design in a very intentional way.

💡 Modern Tip: Less is more. Let bold, design-led pieces speak for themselves and avoid over-cluttering.

🕯️ Romantic

Think: Soft colours, candlelight, floral arches, and elegant details.
Perfect for: Stately homes, castles, historic venues, traditional vibes.

Romantic weddings are full of soft pastels, delicate fabrics, elegant calligraphy, and lush, overflowing florals. It’s a timeless and sophisticated look that brings a dreamy fairytale feeling to the day.

💡 Romantic Tip: Lighting is key — think candlelight, warm uplighting, and soft glows to add instant ambience.

🪩 Glamorous

Think: Luxe materials, crystal chandeliers, bold florals, and wow-factor everything.
Perfect for: Hotels, ballrooms, high-end venues, evening weddings.

A glamorous wedding is all about drama and decadence. Think rich colour palettes, sequin table runners, statement lighting, gold accents, and upscale details that sparkle.

💡 Glam Tip: Invest in a few show-stopping pieces — like a floral staircase or a mirrored aisle — and build around them.

🍃 Garden/English Countryside

Think: Blooms, afternoon tea, relaxed elegance, and classic charm.
Perfect for: Manor houses, outdoor marquees, summer weddings.

This style combines romantic vibes with a touch of tradition. Think garden roses, climbing ivy, vintage crockery, and soft pastel palettes. It’s effortlessly elegant, without being overly formal.

💡 Garden Tip: Work with seasonal flowers and keep things light, airy, and natural.

🎨 So… How Do You Choose Your Style?

Here are a few questions to help guide you:

• What season are you getting married in? Some styles work better in certain seasons

• What’s your venue like? Some aesthetics suit certain spaces naturally

• What colours or textures are you drawn to?

• What kind of vibe do you want your day to have? Relaxed, formal, romantic, edgy…

• What do you wear on a night out? 

• Do you want to DIY, or leave it to professionals?

🎯 Final Thought: You Don’t Have to Fit a Box

Many weddings blend elements of different styles — and that’s okay! You might love the natural feel of rustic but want the chic finish of modern décor. Or crave a romantic vibe with a few boho touches.

Your style should be a reflection of you both as a couple. Trust your gut, choose what feels authentic, and work with a stylist or planner who can help you bring your vision to life seamlessly.

Need help defining your wedding style?
At Take a Pew, we help couples discover their aesthetic and translate it into a beautifully styled day with cohesive, personality-filled details. Whether you're leaning toward rustic charm or modern luxury — we've got the expertise (and styling stash) to make it shine.

📧 info@takeapew.com | 🌐 www.takeapew.com